As to your father, trust that in the silence things will unfold. We are pleased that you followed our instructions and brought yourself back to us so quickly. Apologizing and loving him showered back to you love from your mother in the most unexpected way. You understand that she showers you this way becxuzd that is her Divine offering into your life. Don’t shun the gift. Accept it, appreciate it and remove your expectation of how she should be a grandparent. Accept how she shows up. Because in this surrender her soul is getting to fulfill her role in this life. It is not your place to tell her how to be present for her grandkids. Simply accept when she is. Your role with your husband is evolving to such a place where their help will come in different ways because he will find his balance and peace to be more present with his children. We are truly happy with your ability to receive these messages. Yes they are to you and for you and we recognize that through you many people get to experience the same level of understanding to be able to apply this to their lives.